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Marriage Online Course

Course Orientation

Overview & Guidelines
Introduce Yourself
Materials: Course Workbook
Technical Support

Course Introduction

A Special Welcome from Dan
Our Starting Point (15:12)
How to Engage One Another (5:07)

Lesson 1 - Leave

Leave - Creating a New Loyalty (13:19)
Failure to Leave - Breaking Trust (11:09)
Leave - Restoring Trust (12:53)
Lesson 1 Reflection (3:52)

Lesson 2 - Triangulation Deep Dive

Caught in the Web: Triangulation (12:27)
Redeeming Ambivalence (22:54)
Steve & Lisa (23:35)
Lesson 2 Reflection (5:00)

Lesson 3 - Weave

Weave - Connecting in Conflict (12:30)
Weave - Disconnecting in Contempt (13:23)
Weave - Reconnecting in Commitment (14:26)
Lesson 3 Reflection (5:26)

Lesson 4 - The Battle of Shame

Reconnecting Through Shame (21:27)
Lesson 4 Reflection (18:42)

Lesson 5 - The Quadrants of Marriage

The Quadrants of Marriage (7:18)
Quadrant 1 - The TV Marriage (8:30)
Quadrant 2 - The Conservative Marriage (9:25)
Quadrant 3 - The Social-Striving Marriage (8:19)
Quadrant 4 - The Chaotic Marriage (8:32)
The Quadrants of Marriage Summary (1:44)
Lesson 5 Reflection (3:34)

Lesson 6 - Cleave

Cleave - God Loves Sex (10:51)
Cleave - The Debris of Shame (15:32)
Cleave - Naked and Less Shame (15:33)
Lesson 6 Reflection (3:42)

Lesson 7 - Effects of Trauma and Abuse Deep Dive

The Impact of Trauma and Abuse (12:01)
Trauma and Abuse Discussion (26:48)
Dan & Becky (27:58)
Lesson 7 Reflection (7:00)

Lesson 8 - The Way Forward

The Way Forward (18:41)
What's Next (12:09)

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